Parenting Truths No One Talks About
Sabko lagta hai ki parenting ek natural process hai — cute moments, pyar bhare hugs, aur Instagram-worthy bachpan.
Reality? It’s often messy, confusing, and exhausting.
Ek baar Ritu (meri friend) ne call kiya raat ke 2 baje:
“Main bas ek baar chain ki neend lena chahti hoon yaar… main thak gayi hoon.”
Uski 2 saal ki beti teething phase mein thi. Poore ghar ka schedule hil gaya tha. Aur Ritu — ek confident working woman — apne aap ko helpless mehsoos kar rahi thi.
You’ll feel love you never knew existed… and frustration you never imagined.
Parenting truths no one talks about yahi toh hai — jo dikhta hai, wahi sach nahi hota.
Parenting Truths No One Talks About: You Will Lose Sleep — And Sometimes Yourself
Neend sacrifice hoti hai, but sirf raat ki nahi. Kabhi kabhi aapki identity bhi.
Ek din Prakash (ek dad from my society) ne bola:
“Mujhe yaad nahi last time maine apne liye kya kiya tha.”
Diaper duty, school projects, tantrums — aur is beech mein ‘main kaun hoon’ wala sawal.
But parenting also becomes a rediscovery journey. Shayad aap wahi ho gaye ho jinka patience ab Everest jaisa strong hai.
Parenting Truths No One Talks About: Guilt Becomes Your Shadow
Guilt? Oh, it’s your new best friend.
Screen time zyada de diya.
Junk khaane diya.
Homework mein help nahi kar paya.
Ek mom ne bola:
“Main apne bacche se jyada apne guilt ke saath rehti hoon.”
But the truth is — awareness beats perfection. Parenting truths no one talks about include this: even your guilt means you care.
Parenting Truths No One Talks About: Your Relationship Will Be Tested
Romantic dinner? Now replaced with feeding sessions and cartoon background score.
Ek couple jise main jaanta hoon, 6 mahine tak ek dusre se sirf baby-care ke topics pe baat karte rahe.
“Humne realise kiya, hum parents ban gaye… lekin couple rehna bhool gaye.”
Schedule date nights. Talk about non-kid things. Parenting ek team sport hai — solo nahi.
Parenting Truths No One Talks About: Kids Learn More from What You Do Than What You Say
Ek baar Neha (ek mom blogger) ne apne bacche ko bola: “Respect elders.” Next day usne dekha uska beta maid pe chilla raha tha.
Tab samajh aaya — bacche aapka tone, behaviour, sab observe karte hain.
Parenting truths no one talks about: aap jo ho, baccha wahi banega.
Parenting Truths No One Talks About: You Will Crave Silence — And Then Miss the Noise
Ek Sunday ko Nisha ka beta apne nani ke ghar gaya. Pehli baar ghar mein total silence.
1 ghanta: Bliss.2 ghanta: TV binge.3rd ghanta: “Yeh ghar itna soonapan kyun lag raha hai?”
Parenting ka paradox — aap shor se thakte ho, lekin bina uske adhoore lagte ho.
Parenting Truths No One Talks About: The Internet Can Make You Feel Like a Failure
“Main best mom/dad nahi hoon.”
Social media pe jab sabke bacche piano bajate dikhte hain, aapke wale LEGO kha rahe hote hain.
“Mera 4 saal ka beta abhi bhi potty trained nahi hai. Instagram moms make me feel useless.” — Reena, single mom
Parenting truths no one talks about: jo dikhta hai, woh hamesha sach nahi hota.
Parenting Truths No One Talks About: You Won’t Always Like Your Child
Har parent yeh phase feel karta hai — jab bachcha rude, stubborn ya unreasonable lagta hai.
“Ek din meri beti ne bola: ‘I hate you!’ Mujhe laga main fail ho gayi.”
Lekin woh ek moment tha. Us raat usne mujhe tightly hug kiya.
Bacche phases se guzarte hain — aur parents bhi.
Aap hamesha unse pyar karoge. Har moment mein unka behaviour pasand aaye, yeh zaruri nahi.
Parenting Truths No One Talks About: You’re Doing Better Than You Think
Agar aap yeh blog padh rahe ho — iska matlab hai aap seekhna chahte ho. Aur bas wahi proof hai ki aap achhe parent ho.
“Main perfect nahi hoon. Par main har din try karta hoon.” — Ayaan, single dad of 2
Parenting truths no one talks about: perfection nahi, presence important hai.
Aapke bacche ko superhero nahi chahiye — sirf aapka version jo kabhi haar nahi maanta.
Final Words
Parenting ek thriller movie ki tarah hai — suspense, emotion, tension aur unexpected plot twists.
Lekin har climax ke baad ek pyara scene bhi hota hai.
Aap hero ho — even when you feel broken. Aap guide ho — even when you feel lost.
And most importantly, aap wahi ho jiske bina unka story incomplete hai.
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